Guide to Sexual Terms

• 69 : Simultaneous fellatio and cunnilingus
• A-levels : anal sex
• A: Anal sex
• Abstinence : Refraining from all sexual activity
• ac/dc: Bisexual
• acorn: The head of the penis
• active: The aggressive sexual partner
• agate: A small penis
• analingus: Stimulation of the anus with the mouth, includes licking, touching, or tongue penetration
• androgynous: Not clearly masculine or feminine
• aphrodisiac: A food, odor, drug, or other substance that is said to increase sexual arousal and desire
• arse: Slang for "ass" of British origin
• angel: Male who pays for sexual acts
• anus: The opening of the rectum
• areola: the dark red or light brown ring of skin surrounding the nipple
• around the world: The act of kissing the entire body as a prelude to sex
• asexual: Absence of sexual feeling
• auntie: An aging male homosexual
• auto-eroticism: Masturbation
• auto-fellatio: Performing fellatio (oral sex) on one's own penis
• auto-sadism: An act whereby one inflicts pain on oneself
• auxiliary intercourse: Sexual climax achieved by moving the erect penis back and forth in the armpit
• back scuttle: Perform anal intercourse
• bag it: Wearing a condom during intercourse
• ball: To have intercourse
• bang: To have sex with
• Bartholin's Glands: Two small glands near the vaginal opening that secrete lubrication during sexual arousal. These are the female equivalent of the male Cowper's glands.
• B/D: Bondage and discipline
• BDSM: Bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadomasochism combined into one
• Beard burn: When a man's facial stubble scrapes a woman's inner thighs or face during sexual contact
• beef curtain: slang for the vulva, which is the collective term for the external female genitalia
• bestiality: sex with animals
• beating off: male masturbation (many variations)
• beaver: Slang for female genitals
• beefcake: Nude males depicted in photographs
• bidet: Oval shaped porcelain bowl similar to a water fountain that women squat over to clean their genitals or stimulate themselves with. These are found is more European bathrooms than American ones.
• bikini line: The area of skin around a woman's genitals that is visible when a bikini is worn. Many women shave their bikini lines.
• bisexual: a person who is sexually or romantically attracted to both sexes
• bitch: A mean, irritated, spiritless, snappy, bad mood, or ignorant woman or a feminine male
• blow: 1) To perform oral intercourse on a male 2) cocaine
• blow job: fellatio or oral intercourse performed on a male
• blue balls: Severe need for a male to experience sexual orgasm, symptoms include cramps, pain or swelling in the scrotum, and irritability. There are no bad side effects other than feeling really horny.
• boink: To have intercourse with
• bondage: Getting sexual pleasure from being tied up
• brownie queen: Passive partner in anal intercourse
• bugger: to perform anal sex, often referring to sex with animals
• bull dyke: masculine female homosexual
• bum: British slang for "butt"
• butch: A lesbian who adopts the masculine role
• butt plug: A dildo-shaped object with a flared end that is used for anal or prostate stimulation
• castration: removal of the male genitals by a surgical operation
• cervix: the entrance to the uterus in women, located at the top inside of the vagina
• chakra: According to Taoist tradition, one of seven energy centers in the body
• cheat: To be unfaithful to one's regular sex partner
• cherry: Imaginary unbroken genital seal or object of a virgin woman, usually refers to an unbroken hymen
• circle jerk: Where several men get together and masturbate together, doesn't have to be homosexual
• circumcision: the surgical procedure of removing the foreskin of the male penis
• clap: Slang for gonorrhea, a sexually transmitted disease
• clitoris: the most sensitive external female sex organ, located near the top of the vulva and generally covered by a clitoral hood of flesh
• closet queen: A male homosexual who hides his desires for other men
• cock ring: A rubber ring made to fit snugly over the base of the penis or the penis and the testicles with the purpose of sustaining an erection. Controversial.
• cockteaser: One who excites a male without carrying on to actual sexual relations
• coitus: (pronounced "KWA-tus") Sexual intercourse
• coitus in ano: Anal intercourse
• coitus interruptus: Withdrawal of the penis prior to ejaculation
• cold: Unresponsive to sexual relations
• come: To achieve sexual orgasm; alternate spelling for cum
• condom: a sheath of latex, plastic, or animal skin worn over the penis to prevent sperm ejaculating into the vagina to prevent pregnancy or the transmission of disease
• cornhole: slang for the anus, also refers to anal sex
• corona: Rim of flesh which forms the base of the head of penis
• Cowper's glands: Small glands near the inside of the base of the penis that produce pre-cum in men. These glands are analogous to the female Bartholin's glands which also secrete lubrication.
• crabs: Lice which infect the pubic area of the body
• cum: semen
• cunnilingus: stimulation of the vulva with the mouth
• cunt: vagina, also used as a derogative reference a woman
• cupid's hotel: Slang for a vulva
• daisy chain: A group sex activity in which there is a linking of several people by oral connections
• dental dam: a piece of latex placed over the vulva during cunnilingus to protect both partners from STDs
• depilatory: Something that removes hair from the body, usually cream
• derriere: The buttocks
• diaphragm: a dome-shaped cap of rubber designed to cover the cervical opening and prevent sperm from entering the cervix
• dildo: an artificial penis used in sexual activity
• Dirty Sanchez: During sexual activity, when the man inserts his finger into the woman's anal cavity and then smears the fecal residue onto her upper lip to form a thin Mexican shit mustache. She now resembles someone named Dirty Sanchez.
• double bagging: Wearing two condoms at once. NOT recommended as added friction can cause a higher instance of failure.
• douche: (pronounced "dewsh") The act of a woman cleansing her vagina with water or some solution. Research indicates douching causes a higher risk of Pelvic Inflammatory Disease and is not necessary because the vagina is self-cleansing.
• douche bag: Derogatory term usually used to describe nasty women
• drag queen: Male who dresses in female clothing
• dry fuck: Moving against on another, clothed. To simulate intercourse
• dyke: A lesbian
• easy: A person who needs little persuasion to perform sex acts
• eat out: To perform oral intercourse on a woman's genitals
• ectopic: Pregnancy where the embryo implants in the fallopian tubes instead of the uterus. Can be fatal to the mother.
• effeminate: Descriptive of a male who acts in a feminine manner
• ejaculation: Discharge from the penis during sexual climax
• elbow grease: slang for lubrication used during sexual activity
• enuresis: Urinating while sleeping
• erection: Description of a hard, often sexually-excited, blood-engorged penis
• eroticism: Tension caused by sexual desire
• eunuch: A male who has had his testicles removed
• exhibitionist: A person who derives sexual gratification by displaying his body to others
• faggot: A male homosexual
• fairy: A male homosexual
• family jewels: The testicles
• feel up: Touching a partner with your hands, can include the body and/or genitals
• felching: consuming the resultant semen after anal sex
• fellatio: stimulation of the penis with the mouth
• female ejaculation: Some women are reported to squirt clear fluid that is not urine during intense orgasms
• femoral: intercourse where the penis is slid over or up the outside of the vulva without being inserted into the vagina
• fetish: An object or part of the body which is normally considered non-sexual but which arouses erotic feelings such as leather, rubber, fair, feet, panties, and often strange or exotic in nature
• fisting: inserting a whole hand into either the vagina or the anus
• fist fuck Fucking a vagina or rectum with a hand or fist
• flagellation: Whipping or beating to sexual orgasm
• foreskin: skin covering the head of the penis in uncircumcised men
• french kiss: Kissing while touching tongues. A book can be written on this subject alone.
• french tickler: a condom with ridges, bumps, or something else designed to give women extra stimulation during intercourse. Not reported to work above and beyond what the man is otherwise capable of.
• frenulum: a particularly sensitive part of the male penis that is located just below the head on the side of the shaft that faces away from the man
• frottage: sexual pleasure from rubbing against another person
• fuck buddy: A casual friend one has sex with. The relationship isn't serious and in these cases the people involved usually trust one another to help relieve sexual tension without "fucking" up the friendship.
• full house: Having more than one venereal disease at the same time

• gang bang: Group sex where one is fucked consecutively by many
• gay: Homosexual
• genitals: The human reproductive organs
• gerbiling: the activity of Urban Legend status regarding the insertion of a gerbil or similarly-sized rodent into the anus
• get it up: To achieve an erect penis
• get some: To attain sexual intercourse with someone
• get your rocks off: To ejaculate
• give head: To perform oral intercourse on a male, same as a blowjob or fellatio
• glans: The head of the penis
• glory hole: An opening cut into the partition between two commode stalls in a men's restroom through which oral intercourse can be performed
• go down on: To perform oral intercourse
• golden shower: when one person pisses on another for sexual pleasure
• goose: To press a finger into the cleavage of the buttocks
• grope: To handle another's genitals
• G-Spot: named for the man who discovered it, Grafenberg, this area is very sensitive in some women and is located about 2 knuckles' length inside the vagina on the side closest to the pubic bone
• g-string: A small brief worn over the genitals
• handballing: same as "fist fucking"
• hand job: Masturbation, particularly at the hands of another
• hardbody: A person who is in peak physical shape
• hard on: An erect penis
• heterosexual: a person who is sexually or romantically attracted only to the opposite sex
• hickey: A spot on the skin that develops when it is sucked on enough to draw blood to the surface
• homosexual: a person who is sexually or romantically attracted only to the same sex
• horn dog: an asshole male who left his manners and dignity behind long ago to pursue women for merely sexual satisfaction
• horny: Sexually aroused; passionate, desiring sex
• horse around: To explore sexually without engaging in intercourse
• hot pants: Sexually aroused
• hump: to have intercourse
• hung: To describe the size of a large penis and/or scrotum
• hustler: Prostitute that searches for customers
• hymen: any tissue that partly or completely covers the vaginal opening
• impotent: Male being unable to engage in sexual intercourse for lack of an erect penis
• incest: sexual intercourse between closely related persons
• IUD: intrauterine device, a method of birth control
• jack off: male masturbation
• jerk off: male masturbation
• jock strap: supportive "underwear" for keeping male genitals in place while doing strenuous or physical activities such as sports
• john: a male who financially supports another for sex favors, usually referred to as a patron of prostitutes
• johnson: Slang for penis
• Kegel Exercises: Genital exercises involving the PC muscle. Please find more information here.
• kicks: sexual thrills
• kink: doing what most people only think about
• Kinsey average: The amount of time sex researcher Alfred Kinsey determined that the average male takes to reach orgasm during intercourse; 2.5 minutes.
• knocked up: pregnant
• KY Jelly: A very popular and effective water-based lubricant used for making sex wetter, sloshier, and more enjoyable
• labia: external folds of flesh of the vulva, "pussy lips"
• labia majora: the thicker, outside labia
• labia minora: the inner labia
• lay: To perform sexual intercourse (getting laid means getting sex)
• lesbian: a homosexual woman
• lesbo: slang for lesbian
• libido: Sexual appetite
• load: The fluid from an ejaculation
• love: the most important and most often neglected part of sexuality that must be a large part of it for the sex to be truly enjoyable
• make out: To succeed sexually
• mary: An effeminate-acting male
• masochism: Where sexual gratification is achieved by pain
• masturbation: Manual self-manipulation of genitals
• matinee: A sex session in the afternoon
• meat: The penis
• mercy fuck: to have sex with someone out of pity rather than personal desire
• merkin: a hairpiece for the pubic region, was used in the old days to hide syphilis symptoms such as lesions and sores
• money shot: scene in porn films where the man ejaculates
• monilia: a type of vaginal yeast infection
• mons: mound of flesh located above the vagina
• Montgomery nodes: tiny little bumps that form on and around the nipples after puberty; these are completely normal
• morning-after pill: a type of birth control pill that is administered within 72 hours of unprotected intercourse to keep a fertilized egg from implanting in the uterus
• muff: slang for vulva
• muff diver: a man who performs oral sex on a woman's genitals; sometimes derogatory
• mutual masturbation: Where partners manipulate each other's genitals
• narcissism: One who is stimulated by one's own body
• neck: To embrace, kiss and fondle
• nipple clips: small devices that are placed on the nipples by some as part of sex play
• nocturnal emission: medical term for "wet dream" where a man ejaculates in his sleep, with or without a sexual dream
• nonoxynol-9: a popular spermicide that renders male ejaculate infertile by changing its pH
• nuts: The testicles
• OCT (optimum cum time): the male orgasms and ejaculates at just the precise time so that both he and his partner are fully satisfied at the same time
• Onanism: An old derogatory term for masturbation that refers to Onan in the Bible who "spilled his seed." It is now believed that instead of masturbation, Onan withdrew from his partner during intercourse and God was angry at him for not procreating.
• one night stand: A sexual affair between two or more people who will probably never see each other again
• on the rag: derogatory term for a woman who is on her period
• oral intercourse: A sexual activity whereby the mouth of one person is used in connection with the sexual organs of another person to produce sexual gratification
• orgasm: The peak of sensation during sexual activity during which sexual tension is released
• package: The male genitals
• panty liner: a pad that is used by women during menstruation
• papaverine: drug that is injected into the penis to cause it to become erect
• pecker: The penis
• pederasty: Insertion of the penis into the anus
• pedophelia: Sexual love of a child by an adult
• peeping tom: A voyeur
• pelvic inflammatory disease (PID): a bacterial STD that infects the female sex organs
• penis: The male sex organ consisting of head, shaft and base
• perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles, anus and vagina
• pervert: One who receives sexual gratification from kinky sex acts
• peter: The penis
• phallus: The penis
• philistine: an asshole
• pickup: Stranger who is induced to go elsewhere for sex
• pink pearl: a type of vibrator
• piss hard on: An erect penis caused by the need to urinate
• pocket pool: Masturbating through pants pocket
• poke: To engage in sexual intercourse
• poontang: derogatory term referring to a woman as a sexual object
• poppers: amyl nitrate, butyl nitrate, or a form of isopropyl alcohol that is inhaled before orgasm to greatly enhance sensation; very dangerous and can be fatal
• precum: Natural lube which oozes from the penis during and after extreme sexual excitement
• prepuce: male penis foreskin
• prostate: walnut-sized organ at base of urethra which eject semen, can be found a short distance up the anus and felt through the rectal wall
• prostitution: exchange of money for sexual favors
• pudenda: anatomical term for female vulva or reproductive organs
• punanny: reggae term for sex
• pushover: Easily persuaded to engage in sex
• pussy: Vagina
• pussy whipped: an unreasonable man that does everything his woman says no matter how silly or ridiculous
• queef: resultant air emitted from a vagina after it has trapped air pockets from intercourse or oral sex
• queen: An effeminate male homosexual
• quickie: A very brief sex act
• quim: British term for vagina
• Randy: Australian term for being horny
• rape: sexual activity forced upon someone unwilling or unable to give consent
• ream job: licking the anus, also known as rimming
• rectum: tube between the colon and the anus
• refractory period: Immediately following ejaculation, further sexual orgasm or ejaculation is physiologically impossible during this period of time, which ranges anywhere from a few minutes to several hours and is common among almost all men
• retrograde emission: This is what happens when an ejaculation causes semen to back up into the bladder rather than spurting out the penis. Doing this on purpose can be uncomfortable and possibly dangerous.
• rim: To use the tongue on the anus
• rimming: see analingus
• road erection: an unwanted erection that has nothing to do with sexual feelings and everything to do with a penis that has a mind of its own
• rubber: a condom
• safeword: the code phrase or word used in any sort of sexual activity that really means "Stop NOW."
• sadism: Sexual stimulation associated with the desire to inflict pain, physical or mental on another
• sadomasochism: Both sadism and masochism existing in the same person
• scat: sexual acts involving feces (poop, shit)
• schlong: Jewish term for penis, often used in American slang
• score: To achieve sexual intercourse
• scrotum: The pouch or sac with contains the testicles
• semen: The fluid produced during ejaculation of the male
• shoot: To achieve orgasm
• sloppy seconds: refers to having intercourse with someone after someone else has first
• smegma: White matter which collects under the foreskin of the uncircumcised penis
• snatch Slang for vulva
• snowballing: a male swallowing his own ejaculate after it has been in someone's ass, mouth, etc.
• sodomy: often simply refers to anal sex; however, the actual dictionary definition includes anything considered "unnatural or deviate sexual intercourse" which may include everything from oral sex to sex between partners of the same gender
• spanish fly: An alleged aphrodisiac that consists of some formula with powdered blister beetles. When ingested this concoction is actually very dangerous and can cause infections and irritation of the bladder. Can be fatal.
• sperm: The fluid that erupts from the penis during ejaculation
• splash conception: becoming pregnant from semen that drips from the anus and into the vagina after anal intercourse
• spunk: British term for semen
• stallion: A male who possesses a very large penis
• straight: A heterosexual
• stud: A male who is in great demand as a sex partner
• stud muffin: An incredibly tough and independent woman; not to be confused with stud
• suck off: To perform oral intercourse on the penis
• swinger: One who accepts free love from those married or unmarried
• swinging: consensual sex involving the exchange of marital partners for sexual purposes
• swish: A male who behaves in a feminine manner
• switch hitter: A bi-sexual
• tampon: Cotton absorbent cylinders that are inserted into the vagina to soak up menstrual fluid
• tea room: A public men's rest room
• testicles: The male reproductive glands
• third sex: Homosexuals tongue
• thrush: A vaginal infection caused by candida or monilia fungus. Nasty.
• tit fuck: intercourse between the female breasts
• to tongue: To perform oral intercourse on
• toolbox: The male genitals
• tossing salad: The act of eating out the anus of another person with your tongue and lips.
• trade: A passive male prostitute who caters to homosexuals
• trick: A sex partner
• tubal ligation: to surgically seal off the fallopian tubes, effectively sterilizing a woman
• turn a trick: To take on a sex partner for money
• uncut: not circumcised
• urethra: Duct which carries urine and semen
• urogenital: referring collectively to the urine/sex organs of males or females
• urolagnia: Sexual pleasure from watching another drink urine
• vacuum cleaner: One who applies great suction during oral sex
• vagina: Orifice of female sex organs, this is what harbors and takes the penis in during sexual intercourse, it extents up and back from the labia and ends inside at the cervix
• vanilla sex: Any non-kinky sex acts
• vasectomy: sterilizing the male by snipping the tubes that carry sperm from the testes to the prostate
• versatile: Bi-sexual
• vibrator: an electrically driven machine that vibrates
• virility: The sexual power and capacity of a male lover
• voyeur: One who gains sexual satisfaction from watching others undressing or engaged in sexual acts
• vulva: collective term referring to a woman's external genitalia
• wanker: a man with a large penis who either is either unaware of his sexual capacity or is unwilling to use it to his benefit
• water sports: sex involving urine or urination (also "scat", sex involving feces)
• wham bam: Rapid and hurried sexual activity
• wiener: The penis
• work off: To masturbate
• work up: To create passion of to be passionate
• x-frame:A bondage frame in the shape of an "X" in a horizontal position
• Yank: masturbate
• yeast infection: a common type of fungus infection of the vagina
• zipless fuck: meaningless intercourse
• zoophilia: see bestiality, sex with animals